It's about should the girls pay the bill or at least pay half during dates? Matt, the writer has brought up an interesting point :
"If the women are equal, how come men pick up so many bills?"
You pay for the movie.
You pay for meals.
You pay for the clothes that she like.
You pay for the parking tickets.
You pay everything!
You pay for meals.
You pay for the clothes that she like.
You pay for the parking tickets.
You pay everything!
Hey guys.
Is this sounds true to you?
Do you agree it?
Do you agree it?
You start paying bill for your first dates...
Until you're married and old... and you still have to pay for the bills?Sound true uhh?
Well, this sounds true to me since in this 21 century we, the females get the same opportunity with the males in most aspects including education, job, status and etc. Unlike in those days where sexual discrimination was so strong (I think it's still happening in some countries). Women were being treated like slaves. They didn't have the freedom to do things they like and worst, they even lost their dignity.
Hey! Stop that!Lucky for me that I am not in those days where the gap between the status of men and women is so big. Now we get the right to stop gender discrimination. And STOP the sexual harassment cases as well! Eerr..... ;(
Since we're equal to men now, I think I still can effort to foot the bills (if I am working), sometimes. Honestly, I don't mind to pay. I think this is fair to both couples. Besides, the men's burden on financial can be reduced since they have to pay for two persons for each date.
We will kindly pay for it.Anyway, if I ever come across with a guy/guys who expect me to pay for them all the time during dates (which I call it as roles-shifting), I believe it will be my last date with him. No matter how strong a woman is in todays world, we still need a man to pamper us, love us, take care of us, support us and be a gentleman. Well, I don't mean that the guy should take all the responsibility for the person he dates with. Just try your best. And you can tell us your situation. I believe we will understand it and will go to the hawker stall for meals instead of Secret Recipe or Chilis.
Sometimes, guy's ego is too high. They are afraid of telling the true. As the result, girls hardly understand their mates. So, it's better if the guy can discuss with the girl in a good way regarding with his financial burden. And girls! We should take care of our partner's purse. Or else... you know the consequences.
You're partner is so stress. Lol....Looks like I've to bare this in mind too... ;)
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males pay at 1st, then ask the females pay the other half lo..
anyways, both male and female are equal.
Well I don't think there are many men who will allow girls to pay the bill. It's their ego to "pamper" the girls :).
the girl should offer to pay... but it's the guy's disgression to accept or not.
It depends on the situation and occasion. But if a guy wants to impress the girl with his wallet, let him do it la. Usually a guy would want to do that to the girl he is trying to woo, it is like the saying the sweet part comes first after he got her, maybe he is going to make her pay ..wukakakakaka
I think go dutch is the best - pay for your own part. Hehehe..
since when we're equal???
man gets more pay than women.
so for them to pay our bill is so hard? things are better than many years back. but we're not on equal grounds.
it depends on the relationship. sometimes you want to treat your guy or what...but we're not there to foot all their bills. or pay their debts :P
It depends. I have female frens who rather we go dutch, or pay 4 the meal, then I pay 4 e desert or movie.
I have met ppl who expect u to pay 4 everything too. But I also have female frens who pick the tab.
I m still a student leh, of course I hope female will pay whenever it's needed :P
Still I will pay the bills most of the time
johnny: Lol... That's mean you agree that girl should pay for the another half izzit? And you do think we're equal.. Emm... good.
cherry: I guess you're right. THeir ego are so high... So, lucky if your guy will pamper you.. ^^
zwet: I like your answer. We should offer and depend on him whether to accept or not. Good!
x: Lol.. this happen in reality. Guys pay at first during dates, but after marriage... things change.. Herm... I hate it! Eerr...
lynnx01: Since it's fare and square.. this is another good comment. ;D
dalicia: No paying all the bills and depts for them. I truly agree this. Anyway.. it's still a question whether we're equal or not. Emm.....
paul: Another go dutch suggesstion. Easy and same ya? Haha...
No, man have to paying rfor a woman!
But sometimes we have to paying them to
That's a terrific post dear!Yup both should know where to toe the line.Keep going gal!
P.S.Voted! :)
yeah good topic!
By right, the person who asks the other one out on the first date should be the one to pay. But I'm a truely old fashioned girl, so I think the guy should always pay, first date, second date, or even after the one hundred and ninth date.... hihihi
Hrm. Well, if the 'feel' is there, does the money really matter? Who cares if he or she pays neh?
cool post! well if i ask a guy out, i do so with the expectation of picking up the bill, but guess what they always say "oh no, ill get it". and if the guy asks, i expect he'll pay! ;)just seems like thats the way it should be. :)
That is a cool poll! I say "Sometimes"... I think that when you are young and not seriously dating then the female should try to pay her half.
If the male really likes her and it's getting romantic, I think it is nice and old fashioned for the male to offer to pay.
evelynpy: I want them to pay for us too.. More gentleman.. ^^
sameera: Haha... it's the fact I guess... Anyway, I think sometime the girl should pay...
slowcatchupkuan: ^^ good...
drama diva: I love man who will pay for me. At least they are showing the effort. Anyhow, I will pay..sometimes... Looks like I am an old-fashion girl too! HAha...
snowwolf: Hello snowwolf... Thank for dropping by. Well, it's true if we've feeling to each other, it's doesn't matter who will pay.. Somehow, if it's for long term, I believe there is the problem that will occur..
Good point you've here.. ^^
a blue eyed girl: Hello girl! Finally you're back! Happy... Haha... It's better if they can pay. A way to show that they can take care of us.
tracy: I love your answer! That's mean it's depend on the situation right? If a male is really love her, then he should show his love.. haha... good!
this is an interesting post. footing the bill for a guy, to me, depends on the age/situation during time of date.
both person is still studying: bill should be split. no earning power yet and parents make hard earned money.
after age 21 and both person is working: the bill can be paid by either one person or split bill.
after age 25 and both person is working: the guy should be paying, else you can screw the date. if the guy don't offer to pay, he's not a gentleman. =) this of course changes if the guy is your partner la .. i believe in equality in a relationship to a certain extend.
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