17 May 2010

I Hate Wikipedia Info On Camwhore.

Camwhoring is good for health.

 

Say ‘I’ if you agree.

Well, don’t pretend. I can read your mind. I know you are secretly agreeing with the above statement.. *grin*

 

In this era, when almost everyone can personally own a camera (or at least a webcam or a camera phone), who don’t play with this toy whenever there is a chance?  Who don’t want to capture the new, glittering fake eye lashes they have, or the new bob hairstyle they’ve just cut  or the best dress they’ve put on when the camera is easily available? When you realize beauty doesn’t last forever, cam-whoring has become part of the necessity.

 

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Camwhore with your girlfriend, even better =)

 

 

And you know what? Even my 5 and 7 years-old-nephews were jumping and calling all over to capture some of their cheeky poses (luckily they are forbidden to own any electronic devices at this young age).

 

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Now, tell me who don’t play with his or hers camera if there is a chance to do so?

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Do you think that cam-whoring, self-potrait or self-photographed is something bad? Feeling sick when looking at people who obsessed with self-photographed at the restaurant? Can’t stand any longer with this histrionic traits?

 

If you find yourself nodding and saying ‘yes’ to almost every question above, I guess you are  most likely prone to the Wikipedia’s statements.

 

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Wikipedia: Link

 

 

A camwhore (sometimes cam-whore, cam whore or cam-slut)[1] is an individual who performs sexual services on the Internet with webcam software in exchange for money or goods, usually by a fixed per minute fee or by encouraging viewers to purchase items on their wish lists or add to their online accounts.[2] While the label is usually considered derogatory and insulting,[3] it is also sometimes self-applied, occasionally in a self-deprecating manner.

 

The term "camwhore" is also used to refer to individuals who post pictures or videos of themselves on the Internet to gain attention. The term disparages those who post pictures of themselves at inappropriate times or places, and usually implies self-absorption. This second usage of the term, deriding vanity and histrionics, is overtaking the prior, more intuitive definition. It is usually synonymous with attention whore.

 

 

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Honestly, I don’t agree with the above statements. First of all, they sounded so negative to me. For example, keywords like sexual services, derogatory, self-deprecating, self-absorption, histrionics and attention whore show no positive sign.

 

 

Wait. Attention whore??? Hello..

 

 

I feel like a pail of cold water pour on my body. Those adjectives are so unfriendly. So rude. I am a person who love self-photographed a lot. You know if you are my loyal readers. I don’t deny if I am being called as a mild histrionics person in this blog because everything here is about me. In fact, most of the personal blog show this trait too.

 

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Again, who don’t when you have your own camera?

 

I wonder, are all this information provided in the wikipedia page over this ‘camwhore’ issue contributed by a group of different people? Or just an individual personal’s opinion? Is there any reliable and valid assessment being conducted over this matter? Are they sure that people who like camwhoring show self-absorption, histrionics or attention whore? Is there any research on this? Is it in the current DSM-IV-TR manual book?

 

If it is me, I wouldn’t jump into any conclusion without much evidences. No wonder the students are not allow to use information from the Wikipedia because it is unreliable.

 

Obviously, I don’t agree with the above statement because it sounds bias to me. Firstly, not everyone who do camwhore make business of their sexual parts. Also, this has become a trend and no one is sick or dying because of it right? Even celebrities are doing this in their Facebook or Myspace ok?

 

Miley cyrus.. well…

 

 

Next, not everyone want to gain attention. Some take it as a form of hobby, some wish to update their friends about his or hers latest activities. Some wish to capture the good moment of themselves which can be therapeutic at times.

 

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I remember that months ago, an article of a newspaper stated a therapist encouraged a low self-esteem patient who does not like herself to try self-photographed (cam-whore) herself. The therapist asked her to dress up nicely and snap good pictures of herself. Then, show them to her closest friends and families. Throughout the treatment, the patient slowly shows changes. She shows self-appreciation after that when she received positive comments from her dearest families and friends.

 

 

Well, I can see why this treatment is a success. It is mainly because you can see the beautiful part of yourself with proof in the hand when you capture them. It is different seeing yourself between mirror and photo. Next, you gain compliments from others when you post up great photos of yourself in your social networking websites which will boost up your confident. Don’t you think people who comment in facebook is greater than in real life? Think again.

 

So, does cam-whoring is an unhealthy activity? I don’t say there is no cons over this issue because I understand that every thing, every incident, ever issue, ever person there are pros and cons. There is yin, there is yang. What I am really affected is, the details in the Wikipedia page (since there are limited websites which is available in the internet) which is so bias. So unfair. If I take every word personally, I feel like I am a whore or a slut now.

 

 

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Can’t anyone change the term cam-whore into something better? Like camtistic (cam+artistic), campeautic (cam+therapeutic), cammiegg (cam+eggi) or.. cammy? I don’t know. Anything but whore and slut.

 

It is irritating to read the description. *curled lips*

 

Anyway, it still does not stop me from being a poser. Why? Because, I am a natural poser since I was a kid. Well, I am not lying.

 

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Ok lah.. laugh if you really want..

 

 

From the description in the Wikipedia page (you can find worse in encyclopediadramatica.com), I can picture that most people are being bias or steoreotype over this self-potrait activity which is my main concern here. Because of these negative views, that is how we can read such description in Wikipedia page.

 

Again, I Hate Wikipedia Over This Issue. Bias. End of story.

15 May 2010

Current Temptation

I don’t know why but have this temptation to post up some of the photos which I’ve edited. There are still some of the works which I need to finish up before posting the real post. Well, blame to my current addiction with photo designs. My fingers just can’t stop playing with the mouse and keyboard.

 

At the same time, my evil thought is persuading me to post up these photos as a teaser.

 

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I love the above quote:

If you have one true friend, you have more than your share.

 

 

Well, this set of photos was taken a year ago. However, I seemed to have forgotten them till I found them again in my hard disk yesterday. It is me, in long hair! Same to Mamak. Do you think I look better in long hair? Emmm….

 

See you guys later in my next post =)

14 May 2010

Bali Bali Swimming Pool

Because of the flower on the ear, it creates a Bali’s atmosphere in most of the photos which we had taken 2 days ago when Mamak came to my house for a stay for 2 days 1 night. I have yet been to Bali. Well, I guess it looks similar like this? lol…

 

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That’s why, I named this post as Bali Bali Swimming Pool to convincing myself that I will go Bali one day.

 

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Does this photo convience you? Ok. I know, I know.. the table & chairs behind spoil my cheating attempt =_=

 

Like usual, Mamak and I will date each other in advance to make sure we have at least 1 full day we can spend together. This is what I call the buddy’s day. You can celebrate this day whenever you and your buddy/buddies are together. Emmm.. should I request this Buddy’s Day from the ministry? It is therapeutic, happy, fun and meaningful. Thus, I can’t see any reason that the ministry should reject me.

 

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Anyway, back to my Bali Bali post. It was this early morning that both Mamak and I decided to go to the pool to swim (I call this as playing water). We had never really try playing at the pool with each other although I have been knowing her for 11 years. Most probably this idea hadn’t come up in ours minds.

 

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Swimming time turned up to be photography time. Thank to my attempt in bringing the camera to the pool. We ended up happily playing with the gadget, rather than doing something healthy for our body. How bad..

 

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Things became even fun when Mamak took 2 flowers and placed them on each of our ears. That’s how the whole Bali Bali’s feel being created.

 

Seriously, I love these two photos. Don’t you agree they look like panting on canvas? Or graphic design which done purposely?

 

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I was actually quite reluctant to snap any picture of myself because I look totally a mess (in my opinion). I had less sleep, bad hair and weak concentration. I should slept for another 2 hours if dad didn’t wake us up for breakfast. Thank to Mamak’s persuasion. Or else, I will miss out talking some of my best photos of the day.

 

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Spending time with friend (especially someone who you can click so much) is always a memorable memory and also wonderful journey of the self. As you explore further in a relationship, you get to understand yourself better with the presence of others. Well, you might not understand what I mean here. It is ok because this is part of my personal thoughts… =)

 

Here are the last set of photos of Mamak. This set of photos is named as: “You-know-when-your-buddy-get-orgasm

 

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Never know my buddy is such a poser. Did I influence her or this is her hidden true-self? Lol… tell me by sms k dear mamak? =P

 

Now I feel like going to the pool again.

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And you know what?

You will be amazed with my next following post (like always). So, stay tune!

 

P/s: This blog will be updated very often, like 1 day 1 post because curryegg darling is having semester break! So, come back for more sharing from me… =D

13 May 2010

Step-By-Step Photo Editing

Don’t you think the title of this post sounds like I am providing tutorial on how to edit photo? Well, I hope I can give tutorial .IF. I am an expert in this area (at least if I personally believe in my skills).


My editing skills isn’t that bad at all lar… right? You love all most of the photos I posted, right? Say yes. Please.. say yes.



#What did I edit?


Maybe you might be curious, what did I normally edit in photos before I posted them in blog? (some of my friends did ask me). Well, you are lucky for having this chance to read my’ secret’. Emm.. not secret at all lah because most people who know how to photoshop know this (even better than my baby-little-birdy skill)… =P


They include normal editing such as putting curryegg.blogspot.com link, placing alphabets, adjusting brightness, contrast, colour and cropping. Sometimes, I did lighten the colour of my obvious pimples, scar, eye bags and black head. Well, when you love a photo so, so much but because of the ‘highlight’, they ruin the overall photo and affect your emotion. Finally, you just have give up and proceed delete button. Sound familiar?


So, don’t you think photo editing software become the hero of life? Well, I don’t mean you have to fully rely on it. No. But you can use it wisely to fit your needs.


Don’t worry, I still have single lids (eyes), moderate head size, small bobs and thin lips even though I photoshopped photos. Well, one of the reasona is mainly because… I have limited photoshop skills (I’ve told you, remember). I still haven’t master the ultimate photoshop skills. Lol.. So, I don’t look much different compare to the real person – except, I wear specs in real life.


Next, I don’t want others to see me pretty in photos but ugly in real life. Or, detect vast differences between the photo me and the real me. Don’t you think it is sad to know that you only look nice in photos but sucks in reality? Ok.. maybe I should replace the word sucks with not-so-nice. Word courtesy..



Also, I am a type of person who is very lazy… I realize that photoshopping tests patience in which you need to sacrifice time and give full concentration in editing. Since I am a non-expert photoshopper, I took longer hour to edit a picture. Plus, I am using an old version of PS. I should upgrade it. Emm.. *adding into my to-do-list*



#Which is the step-by-step work?


Anyway, let see what I have done this whole night? See what is the step-by-step work which I meant? 



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The bad thing about knowing how to edit photo is that, you can’t stop yourself from ‘improving’ the photo. You will be tempted to try putting more effects on the photo which is already good. You will try to click every button which appeared in the box to fulfill your curiosity. So, in the end of the day, you will be tired and exhausted and having no mood to blog (like me).



So, there are 2 solutions which I currently think of that can save me from being unproductiveness. First idea: Master fast and effective photoshop skills. Second idea: Don’t photoshop at all.


Photoshop or no photoshop, well, just ignore that for now. What I need you to do is to voice out your opinion by pointing out which photo you like/prefer the most among these 5. I was so excited and motivated to play with the software hours ago. Thus, came out with these 5 different type of creations.


So, don’t mind spending few seconds to let me know which number of photo look the best?



Next coming post: I think, you can guess it yourself? =)



08 May 2010

Goodbye My Birds

Wait.

Why this sounds so wrong? Is it because of the word, b.i.r.d.s? Or because of the picture of birds?

 

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Oh.. follow me in twitter @curryegg btw..

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no more example.

 

 

Whatever it is. I am seriously saying goodbye to my 6th semester (gosh, I can’t believe it) and to my lovely friends – also The Bird group.

 

My last paper was over since 23 hours ago and currently having my sweet, relaxing time with my family and the nephews. Guess what, I am babysitting both my nephews who are watching anime right – Spirited away. Thought of teaching them with spelling and reading for another 1 hour but they seemed to be getting tired and bored.

 

So, cartoon time. Uhh? Now I sound like a mother. Did I? Better not!

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Well, there is actually one last assignment which I should finish by tomorrow night (better tonight). I should be doing it right now. Emm… maybe tonight… =)

 

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No wonder she named herself as lonely bird in the first place. Now I understand.

*head nodding acknowledging*

 

 

End of semester means another few steps closer to graduation. My Counseling course takes 4 years to complete. So, it means, I still have another 2 semesters to go. However, this time, my feeling is a bit different. I don’t feel joy as much as I did before this. Some of my friends from other courses are leaving and some have left university. Some are heading for long term holiday, some are working and some missing in action.

 

Will I see them again?”, this question keep on playing in my mind. Again, thanks to Facebook for providing me such a beautiful social connecting system. I know that as long as we keep facebooking, not deleting and inviting each other out, the bonds of friendship can still be remained. Yes?

 

 

Being aware of my age (I am still young ok), time and surrounding, I understand that time past will not return anymore. Once it’s gone, means gone. That is why we are always being reminded with ‘time is gold’ quote.

 

I know that I should treasure my time in campus especially in next semester even more! It should be filled with more activities, outing, fun time, quality time and unforgettable time with all the mates, lecturers and monkeys. Wait? Monkey? Eeehhww.. no way! Emm… ok lah.. maybe I still can take photos with them since it will be my last semester.. =_=

 

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Back to the birds story, lately, we have just formed a girl groups among the coursemates named The Birds. Thanks to Shu Huan for the ‘inspiring’ name. If she didn’t unz**ped her *****, Bei Shan wouldn’t shout, I wouldn’t search for bird and Ily & June wouldn’t laugh till their head fall off. Lol….

 

So, here are The Birds ladies.

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So, that is how the name being created if some of you in Twitter and Facebook are still curious with the consistency of the term ‘birds’ appeared in my status bar. Lol..

 

This name, The Bird is referring to the study group we formed in the past 3 weeks. It was started when I was so frustrated, studying Family Therapy all by myself. Also, it is because of I missed the study group which I had created & created by others during in the secondary school. Next, more brains is better than one. Lol…

 

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Thus, the idea of finding study mates hit my mind one evening and messages were sent to some of the lucky candidates, and they are – the flying bird, cutey bird, hungry bird and lovely bird. Lol.. Thank God that they’ve agreed to join. That’s how The Birds group is formed! lol..

 

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Right now….

I miss them already. I miss the crazy moment I have with Ilyana and Bei Shan, serious moment with Shu Huan and hungry moment with June. Semester break has just started and I gotta find ways to meet them as much as I can during holiday (you hear me my dear sweeties?).

 

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The culprit and the mastermind.

 

At the same time, I should start making my meet up attempt with some of the bloggers whom I have promised long time before this. I should start filling up my schedule with more quality time with people and also, for myself. Well, maybe I will get a part time job and start working. That will be even better.

 

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So, dear birdies and coursemates, Happy Holiday! Our 6th War has ended. Enjoy your holiday and we shall meet again in another 2 months. God bless and keep in touch in you-know-where…

 

*wink*

 

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Funny but memorable. Don’t you agree? =P